Hummingbird sticks out tongue
Have you ever embarked on what you thought might be a way to help others, but as soon as you told people about it, became intimidated? I have. In fact, just last year I joined a newly formed writers’ group and shared my plans for books to encourage Christians and strengthen faith. Though I’d published before, as soon as I heard about the others’ awards won, books published, and numerous articles written, I thought, Who am I fooling? I should quit now!
I didn’t quit, however, as I soon realized I was merely intimidated. A friend mentioned it’s not just fears of inadequacy that feed intimidation: it’s often a spiritual battle. Indeed, the Bible tells us we are battling “spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms” (Eph 6:12), so it makes sense there will be a spiritual battle when what’s at stake is spiritually strengthening others.
The Old Testament book of Nehemiah tells how the Israelites’ enemies tried to intimidate Nehemiah to stop him from helping others.
Nehemiah wanted to rebuild Jerusalem’s fallen walls so its people would be protected from plunderers. He discussed his plans with the king, who not only approved his plans but appointed him Judah’s governor. Nehemiah finished arranging everything that could be done before he headed out to his new post.
However, when he arrived at Jerusalem with army officers and letters from the king, he discovered right away that the Israelites’ enemies “were very much disturbed that someone had come to promote the welfare of the Israelites” (Neh. 2:10).
What did Nehemiah do? He didn’t try to win them over: these enemies opposed his goals. Neither did he ask the people he would govern what they thought he should do. Instead, under night’s cover, he examined the ruins with a few trusted men. He told no one there what he was up to until he knew exactly what needed to be done and how. That prevented naysayers from killing the project before it even started with “That’ll never work,” “You’ll never convince so-and-so,” and “You don’t know what we’re up against.”
Then Nehemiah called the people together and told them what he wanted to accomplish and why: “Come, let us rebuild the wall of Jerusalem, and we will no longer be in disgrace” (Neh. 2:17). He rallied their hopes by sharing how God’s hand had been with him so far. They responded, “Let’s do it!”
But as soon as the work began, the enemies mocked and ridiculed Nehemiah and the workers, saying “What is this thing you are doing? Are you rebelling against the king?” (Neh. 2:19).
They were trying to intimidate the Israelites by claiming they were incompetent and threatening trouble if they kept going.
But Nehemiah recognized those words came from enemies who wanted to plunder Jerusalem. He stayed focused on the goal and replied, “The God of heaven will give us success. We his servants will start rebuilding, but as for you, you have no share in Jerusalem” (Neh. 2:20).
Like Nehemiah, I’d seen needs and I’d fasted, prayed, and planned. Doors opened. I made more detailed plans.
And when I got together with others so we could rally each other on, mocking thoughts besieged me.
Hmm. My situation sounded a lot like Nehemiah’s.
So I recognized the ridicule’s source, focused on the goal, told myself God would make successful whatever He wanted me to do, and got writing.
Which was the right thing to do.
If you’ve become intimidated after telling others a goal, how have you battled it?
“But when [our enemies] heard about it, they mocked and ridiculed us. ‘What is this you are doing?’ they asked. ‘Are you rebelling against the king?’ I answered them by saying, ‘The God of heaven will give us success. We his servants will start rebuilding, but as for you, you have no share in Jerusalem or any claim or historic right to it.” ~Nehemiah 2:19-20
Like many Christians I’d memorized verses such as “all things work together for good” and “give thanks in all circumstances (Rom 8:28, 1Th 5:18). When bad things happened, I’d quote these verses, thank God for the good He would work, and push away questions. Trying to trust God, I did something akin to closing my eyes, putting my hands over my ears, and saying, “Lalalalalal—just have faith—lalalalalala.”